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16 Of The Hottest TV Sex Scenes

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Remember when TV couples slept in twin beds and everyone pretty much assumed that Little Ricky was the product of some immaculate conception? Remember when you could watch a show and not worry about a parent or nephew walking in on you? Remember when David Caruso's bare buns on NYPD Blue was as steamy as it got, which is to say, not steamy at all?

Now you don't even need cable to see your favorite TV characters doing the deed, though it certainly doesn't hurt. Viola Davis is pulling out her back. Merkin sales must fly through the roof when Outlander is filming. Frank and Claire Underwood are having threesomes and Remy Danton is a cunning linguist. Thanks to Broad City, "pegging" has entered the mainstream lexicon.

It's hard to play favorites, especially when so much of the good stuff isn't available on YouTube, but these small-screen sex scenes stand out from the rest. Was it good for you?

Danny & Alex, London Spy
Ben Whishaw and Edward Holcroft steam up the screens in this British spy drama. The scene drew some viewer complaints, but they weren't from us.

Jamie & Claire, Outlander
She’s conflicted because of her overwhelming attraction to the young Scot and the fact that she’s technically married to someone else in the 20th century. He’s nervous because he’s a virgin. They figure it out in no time flat on their wedding night.

Chuck & Blair, Gossip Girl
This limo scene started one of the greatest relationships of our time. #Chair forever.

Jon Snow & Ygritte, Game of Thrones
It turns out Jon Snow does know something.

Pictured: Kit Harington and Rose Leslie in Game of Thrones

Connor & Paxton, How To Get Away With Murder
"He did this thing to my ass that made my eyes water," Pax said after their copy room hookup.

Kate & Sawyer, Lost
It's animalistic and hot, except you can't help but wonder how Kate's armpits are still hairless when she's been imprisoned on a deserted island for so long.

Nicky & Morello, Orange Is the New Black
In which Nicky makes Morello see God.

Pictured: Natasha Lyonne and Yael Stone in Orange Is the New Black

Libby & Robert, Masters of Sex
One second, they're discussing the roles to which society confines them, the next, they’re making rapturous love on the kitchen floor.

Pictured: Caitlin Fitzgerald and Jocko Sims in Masters of Sex

Olivia & Fitz, Scandal
Let's be honest: There were a lot of scenes to showcase from Scandal, because Olivia and Fitz's chemistry is off the charts. There was that time on the campaign trail, "If you want me, earn me," and the cabin in Vermont. We're choosing the phone sex, though, because how often do you witness truly hot phone sex on TV?

Alisha & Future Simon, Misfits
Do Brits do TV sex better? A very important case study.

Kalinda & Lana, The Good Wife
Kalinda employs a creative manipulation technique here. Alas, the uncooperative Lana is left with some proverbial blue balls.

Rachel & Mike, Suits
Only when Rachel finally learns Mike's big secret and the truth is out can they give into their intense feelings for each other in the file room.

Sons of Anarchy, "Fucktage"
Almost every member of the SAMCRO gang is getting it on in the explicit opening montage of an episode called "Faith and Despondency." Also note Wendy engaging in some battery-operated self-loving.

Pictured: Charlie Hunnam in Sons of Anarchy

Marnie & Desi, Girls
It's nice to see Marnie trying new things.

Pictured: Ebon Moss-Bachrach and Allison Williams in Girls

Noah & Alison, The Affair
Four episodes in, we finally get to see the titular affair. It does not disappoint.

Pictured: Dominic West and Ruth Wilson in The Affair

Charlotte & Harry, Sex and the City
She can't believe he'd find her sexy in her glasses. The bachelor pad in which he's squatting is repulsive. Neither of things matter because it's on.



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Movie Review Roundup: What You Should See This Weekend

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Nothing's better than spending the weekend holed up in a movie theater, devouring the latest big-screen debuts. But how do you choose what to see? Well, that's where we come in.

Obviously, there will be certain movies throughout the year that feel like must-sees just because everyone is talking about them. (You've likely already run down the list of Oscar nominees. If not, get to it!) But if you want to be a more discerning cinephile, you can visit this cheat sheet. Here we'll give you the lowdown on new releases — and the critics' verdicts on them. Then you'll be able to determine which one is right for you.

This post will be continually updated, so don't forget to check back!




Gods of Egypt
Starring: Gerard Butler, Nikolaj-Coster-Waldau, Brenton Thwaites
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 10%
Synopsis: A tale of ancient Egypt, but with white people.

What's The Word:
Bad but odd, and bad! Manohla Dargis of TheNew York Timesdeclared that if the movie "were any worse, it might be a masterpiece." At Screen Crush, Matt Singer called it "a bizarre, goofy mess — and occasionally a beautiful one." Scott Tobias of NPR wrote: "Many of the images in Gods of Egypt would make for a fetching prog-rock album cover, but [director Alex] Proyas has populated his digital paradise with banal characters, cherry-picked mythology, and a score just a few notes off from Lawrence of Arabia."

Triple 9
Starring: Anthony Mackie, Casey Affleck, Kate Winslet
Rated: R
Tomatometer: 56%
Synopsis: A heist movie with dirty cops and Kate Winslet playing a mobster.

What's The Word: There are a lot of talented people in this mixed bag of a movie. Rolling Stone's Peter Travers called it "a twisty, terrific ride." But Joe Morgenstern wrote in The Wall Street Journal that"seldom has film been so noir — the light of day barely penetrates many of the settings — or so joyless." Meanwhile, David Edelstein of New Yorksaid it has "a bizarrely great cast for what’s basically a B movie."

Eddie the Eagle
Starring: Taron Egerton, Hugh Jackman
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 71%
Synopsis: Get your feel good on with this Olympic story.

What's The Word:It's an all too familiar tale, but you may enjoy it. Todd VanDerWerff at Vox wrote that "it's just about the most clichéd sports movie," but "it's got charm to spare, and, more importantly, it feels like it emerged from a 1980s time capsule."TheNew York Times' Neil Genzlinger explained that Eddie is "a good-natured film about the British Olympian Eddie Edwards, but it would be better if it respected its audience’s ability to recognize an underdog story." Gary Goldstein at the Los Angeles Times, however, called it "diverting and big-hearted."

The Witch
Starring: Anya Taylor-Joy, Ralph Ineson, Kate Dickie
Rated: R
Tomatometer:89%
Synopsis: A witch and a goat torment a family in Puritan New England.

What's The Word: You are going to want to get freaked out by this one. The New York Times' Manohla Dargis called it "a finely calibrated shiver of a movie," while Time's Stephanie Zacharek went for the phrase a "triumph of tone." According to Slate's David Ehrlich, it's "one of the best tricks the devil has ever pulled."

Race
Starring: Stephan James, Jason Sudeikis, Shanice Banton
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 60%
Synopsis: Jesse Owens' Olympic tale put on screen.

What's The Word:
Sheri Linden of The Hollywood Reporter praised Stephan James' performance as Owens, but wrote that the movie is "still largely a boilerplate affair that takes far too long to hit its stride." Brian Truittwrote in USA Today:"A couple surprising star turns in Race give justice to Jesse Owens' running glory in the 1930s while also feeling timely with modern racial issues in the news."Variety's Andrew Barker argued that the movie "is better than it has to be, but not by too much."

Deadpool
Starring: Ryan Reynolds, Morena Baccarin, T.J. Miller
Rated: R
Tomatometer:81%
Synopsis: This superhero says bad words.

What's The Word:
People like how this movie shakes up an overplayed genre, though it's not for everyone. New York's David Edelstein called it an "agreeable, unprecedentedly R-rated romp with in-jokes, dirty words, and splatter." Refinery29's own Lauren Le Vine explained that the movie is "deeply satisfying because it’s extremely sexually progressive, and while it’s ostensibly Wade Wilson’s story, the film’s female characters are actually its entire raison d’être." ScreenCrush's Matt Singer was not sold. "Gleefully puerile and deeply immature, it has tons of what the MPAA calls 'adult content,' but no actual content for adults," he wrote.

Zoolander 2
Starring: Ben Stiller, Owen Wilson, Penélope Cruz
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer:23%
Synopsis: The perils of being really, really ridiculously good looking, round two.

What's The Word: Time has not done any favors for Derek and the gang. Richard Lawson summed it up viciously in Vanity Fair, saying it's a "deeply depressing mess of a movie whose antic busyness drains at the center, all snap and energy sucked into a howling void where a decent joke used to be." At NPR, Scott Tobias wrote that the "experience of watching Zoolander 2 is like being the plus-one at a Hollywood party where the guests are all blasted on synthetics. It's loud, garish, and distracted, and doesn't care much about showing you a good time." UPROXX's Mike Ryan compared the movie to "a turd with a smattering of celebrity Speed Stick plastered all over it."

How to Be Single
Starring: Dakota Johnson, Rebel Wilson, Leslie Mann
Rated: R
Tomatometer: 50%
Synopsis: City ladies hook up, learn about life.

What's The Word: Though its not getting raves, this rom-com has its moments.The Hollywood Reporter's Frank Scheck declared that it "offers enough fresh, off-kilter humor to provide amusing comfort to those afflicted with the titular condition on its opening Valentine's Day weekend." Perri Nemiroff at Collider said director Christian Ditter "actually manages to deliver a film that both embraces and subverts genre tropes, keeping the film firmly afloat through narrative highs and lows, and also leaving you with something to think about after it wraps up."Variety's Nick Schager was not on board, comparing it unfavorably to Sex and the City.

Hail, Caesar!
Starring: Josh Brolin, George Clooney, Scarlett Johansson
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer:77%
Synopsis: The Coen brothers do Old Hollywood.

What's The Word:
There are some who adore this movie. Slate's David Ehrlich deemed it one of the Coens' "very best." Peter Travers of Rolling Stone called it "a wild whoosh of Coen brothers wizardry that left me laughing helplessly and filled with spiritual dread." Others were not quite as sold. Melissa Anderson wrote in TheVillage Voice that "the fizziness, though, proves fleeting, and Hail, Caesar! too often goes flat."

Pride And Prejudice And Zombies
Starring: Lily James, Sam Riley, Bella Heathcote
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer:43%
Synopsis: What it sounds like: Jane Austen's classic story with added zombies.

What's The Word: The concept doesn't quite work. Manohla Dargis wrote in The New York Times that "the story’s lone joke and its grinding literalness grow dull." At NPR, Scott Tobias claimed that the movie does a disservice to both Austen and zombie movies. "Combining a classic novel of manners with a subgenre rooted in modern political metaphor feasts on the brains of both hosts, reducing Pride and Prejudice to a glib assortment of bullet points and losing the editorial relevancy that has always distinguished zombie pictures from other monster movies," he wrote. Variety's Andrew Barker was slightly more positive, saying it's a "a moderately entertaining film, not deficient in old-fashioned costume drama when it pleases, nor in the power of being clever where it chooses, but awkward and unsatisfying."

The Choice
Starring: Benjamin Walker, Teresa Palmer, Alexandra Daddario
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 9%
Synopsis: Pretty people fall in love, jerk tears out of you in a Nicholas Sparks adaptation.

What's The Word:
Could this be the "worst" Nicholas Sparks adaptation? That's the proposition floated out by Andrew Barker at Variety. Jordan Hoffman at The Guardian called the big twist "a cheap, gratuitous and manipulative way to con people into leaving the theater thinking they’ve had a thorough emotional workout." According to The New York Times' Jeannette Catsoulis, the movie is "repellently synthetic."

Kung Fu Panda 3
Starring: Jack Black, Bryan Cranston, J.K. Simmons
Rated: PG
Tomatometer: 78%
Synopsis: Po returns and meets his dad.

What's The Word: This franchise apparently still has steam. Writing for TheNew York Times, Neil Genzlinger explained that the movie has "a darker feel" than the earlier installments, and that the animation is "simply gorgeous."Variety's Justin Chang was effusive: "Emotionally, dramatically and perhaps most of all visually (it’s worth seeing in 3-D), this delightful trilogy capper is almost as generously proportioned as its cuddly warrior hero, restoring a winning lightness of touch to the saga while bringing its long-running themes of perseverance and self-knowledge to satisfying fruition."USA Today's Brian Truitt was less enthusiastic, saying, "While it lacks the wonder and nuance of earlier Pandas, there are enough new faces and wowing, Asian-influenced style to also keep parents amused for an hour and a half."

The Finest Hours
Starring: Chris Pine, Ben Foster, Eric Bana, Casey Affleck
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 58%
Synopsis: Men with accents save lives on the sea.

What's The Word:
Reviews are middling. TheNew York Times' Stephen Holden called it "moderately gripping." It "gets the job done," according to Rolling Stone. Tasha Robinson at The Verge argues that it needs subtitles: "Incomprehensibility is frequently a problem in this true-life adventure, which devotes an astonishing number of scenes to quiet men with comically impenetrable faux New England drawls muttering technical jargon through the ear-splitting roar of a struggling engine room or a raging sea."

Dirty Grandpa
Starring: Zac Efron, Robert De Niro, Julianne Hough
Rated: R
Tomatometer:6%
Synopsis: Zac Efron's pecs get into hijinks with Zac Efron's grandpa, played by Robert De Niro, making some questionable choices.

What's The Word: Efron may be beautiful, but even that shouldn't convince you to go see this one. Variety's Nick Schager called it "brutally unfunny" and said that "the film’s incessant verbal diarrhea is less shocking than merely embarrassing." Frank Scheck of The Hollywood Reporter wrote: "It can be definitively stated that Dirty Grandpa is utterly unfunny. Or, you could say it's as funny as child molestation, a subject which, incidentally, inspires one of its least tasteful gags." Mike Ryan of UPROXX called it"The Most Important Movie Ever Made," and we highly recommend reading his full (hilarious) critique. At risk of ruining Ryan's punchline, we'll let his own TL;DR version of the review speak for itself: "Dirty Grandpa is the worst movie I’ve ever seen in a movie theater. Burn it."

The 5th Wave
Starring: Chloë Grace Moretz, Nick Robinson, Alex Roe
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer: 20%
Synopsis: Aliens invade; teens fight.

What's The Word:
The fading YA craze sludges along with this lackluster entry. EW's Clark Collis wrote that the film has a "very small amount of grit, either emotional or literal." Peter Bradshaw at The Guardian argued that "Moretz is a strong presence, but without the Katniss factor." Alonso Duralde at The Wrap compared it to a "bad orange," saying it "lacks both juice and flavor."

The Boy
Starring: Lauren Cohan, Rupert Evans, Jim Norton
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer:N/A
Synopsis: A woman becomes the nanny for a seriously creepy doll charge.

What's The Word: The Boy isn't must-see horror. The A.V. Club's Katie Rife explained that "moments of inspiration, or craftsmanship, or whatever you want to call them, are ultimately seasoning sprinkled onto a mushy, microwaved platter of lukewarm horror clichés." Joe Leydon, writing for Variety, said that "the movie never fully distracts its audience from the inherent silliness of its premise — a young woman is hired by an elderly couple as a nanny for a life-sized doll — and, as a result, is more likely to elicit laughs and rude remarks rather than screams and rooting interest. "

Ride Along 2
Starring: Kevin Hart, Ice Cube, Olivia Munn
Rated: PG-13
Tomatometer:17%
Synopsis: Remember the first Ride Along? This is the sequel.

What's The Word:
Look, it’s not like Ride Along was a masterpiece, so don’t get your hopes up. Entertainment Weekly’s Kevin P. Sullivan wrote that there was really no attempt to distinguish the sequel from its predecessor: “The films are so note-for-note similar that it’s easy to visualize a split-screen YouTube comparison video, if you can imagine such a horror.” Frank Scheck of The Hollywood Reporterhad a great burn for the film, calling the “storyline less challenging than that of a typical CBS crime procedural.” At least The Guardian’s Jordan Hoffman had some kind words for the actors, writing: “Though some of the jokes land, that’s entirely due to the performances; there’s not one example of clever writing in the entire picture.”

The Revenant
Starring: Leonardo DiCaprio, Tom Hardy, Domhnall Gleeson
Rated: R
Tomatometer:78%
Synopsis: Leo plays a fur trapper who must fight for survival after being attacked by a bear.

What's The Word:
Go see this movie if you're interested in seeing Leonardo DiCaprio suffer for about two-and-a-half hours. Though deemed the actor's Oscar movie, critics have been mixed. Peter Travers of Rolling Stone hailed it, but declared, "Note to movie pussies: The Revenant is not for you," and called it "one brutal, badass epic." In Peter Bradshaw's five-star review for The Guardian, he wrote: "This is not an immersion that feels like a sensual surrender; it's closer to having your skin peeled."Vanity Fair's Richard Lawson wasn't as sold, writing, "The gore is unflinching and realistic, but it tends to overwhelm, or outright preclude, any deeper thought, any more complex idea than 'Pain is real.'"

The Hateful Eight
Starring: Samuel L. Jackson, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Walton Goggins
Rated: R
Tomatometer:75%
Synopsis: Quentin Tarantino maroons a bunch of questionable characters together during a late-19th-century blizzard. It gets bloody.

What's The Word:
If you have some time on your hands, you may want to check out Tarantino's lengthy Western. (If you're a film buff, you should check out the Roadshow version screened in 70mm.) It's controversial, of course, because it's Tarantino. "Mr. Tarantino doesn’t make films that are 'about race' so much as he tries to burrow into the bowels of American racism with his camera and his pen. There is no way to do that and stay clean," A.O. Scott wrote for The New York Times. He continued, "Some of the film’s ugliness is therefore a sign of integrity, and of relevance. But much of it seems dumb and ill considered, as if Mr. Tarantino’s intellectual ambition and his storytelling discipline had failed him at the same time."New York's David Edelstein was harsher: "It seems perversely crabbed, nihilistic, and shot through with cruelty for cruelty’s sake." The movie does have its fans, though. Variety's Peter Debruge noted: "Familiarity aside, however, the movie absolutely delivers on the sheer moment-to-moment pleasures fans have come to expect, from dynamite dialogue to powder-keg confrontations."



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How Much Shapewear Are Celebs Actually Wearing?

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With just one Instagram video and a catchy little tune, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend star Rachel Bloom pretty much blew the lid off what goes on under all the designer gowns during awards season. “I can’t breathe,” she gasps after busting out some sweet moves while squeezed into a flesh-toned corset and Spanx biker shorts combo. (But hey, the breakout star looked amazing in her off-the-shoulder, body-skimming Christian Siriano gown at the Golden Globes. No pain, no gain, right?)

“[Shapewear] is their armor on the red carpet,” says celebrity stylist Tara Swennen, whose celebrity clients include Kristen Stewart, Emily Ratajkowski, and Modern Family’s Julie Bowen. “It makes them feel locked and loaded. It makes them feel solid. They’re jiggle-proof and wardrobe-malfunction-proof. It gives them an air of confidence.”

And despite all the personal training and access to the latest solid-food-free cleanse, famous people sometimes do feel that need for extra support. “All these celebrities are in shape. They do work out. But a lot of times, they need something extra,” says Judy Len, who styles Ariana Grande, Jamie Chung, and Nicole Scherzinger.

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“You don’t have to get surgery or go under the knife. You can just do this one-time tuck for the dress, and then you’re fine the next day,” she adds. “Kind of like, ‘I have to spend $10,000 on lipo or I can just spend a couple hundred dollars on Spanx.’”

Never mind the question of whether anyone — celebrities included — has to do anything in the first place, but shapewear has been commonplace on the red carpet as long as there have been cameras. The inability to draw a full breath is sometimes a hazard of the trade when it comes to an industry in which wardrobe selection is a strategic business negotiation and a spot on the best-dressed list can carry as much weight as a positive review from the most discerning film critic. And picking the right undergarments to enhance a client’s red carpet look is seen as just as critical.

Stylists have their own processes to pick the right undies, keeping both the red carpet dress and the goals of the client in mind. They maintain a well-stocked undergarment trove in their studios to find the most complementary pieces: slips, thongs, high-waist tummy-tucking boy shorts, full bodysuits, corsets, waist-cinchers, and strapless bra variations from brands like Spanx, Commando, Wolford, Cosabella, and Maidenform.

“Essentially there’s a different type of shapewear solution for every type of figure and every element that you want to essentially smooth out,” says Swennen, who’s a big fan of the new silicone technology in shapewear that prevents that uncomfortable sausage-casing rolling.

Len keeps her supply closet stocked with the versatile Victoria’s Secret Invisible Push Up Bra, a backless silicone push-up contraption that adheres onto the boobs for that “busty” effect. Case in point: Jamie Chung, whom Len is styling for awards season, wore a pair under a cleavage-baring ’30s-inspired dress by Vivienne Westwood to a pre-Golden Globes party. “She wanted that lift — because she’s like me, we’re not busty girls — and honestly, I don’t even know where those boobs came from,” Len says. “I was like, ‘Wow, Jamie, you got some boobs!’ That’s what she wanted. You’re able to achieve those with specific undergarments, which is very important.”

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Of course, if you don’t have any manufacturer-made inserts, there’s the Kim Kardashian–approved DIY method of using gaffer’s tape to lift up boobs. Per her app, Mrs. West explains she’s experimented with “everything from duct tape to packing tape to masking tape” — and oh god, can you imagine the removal process? — but landed on gaffer’s tape to do the heavy lifting, so to speak. She does caution to make sure you don’t have oil or lotion on the chest area beforehand. Len confirms that taping is a common trick of the trade, especially for photo shoots, since it’s easy to find more gaffer’s tape from the crew. But “with red carpet appearances, I worry that if the girl sweats, it won’t stay on as long,” she says. And yes, Len confirms that it probably would hurt like a mother when it’s time to take the tape off.


Stylists also have their own preferred system for fitting the right undergarment with the shortlisted dress or dresses. Swennen will start with Spanx and construct from there. Amy Schumer’s stylist (and Zoolander 2 costume designer), Leesa Evans, works from the ground up. “I always start with seeing how the dress looks without any undergarments, because we want to know that [the look is] almost there and feels comfortable without having to do anything too extreme to make it wearable,” she explains.

In certain situations, though, stylists have to tap into their creativity and resourcefulness — not to mention sewing skills — to find the perfect combination of shapewear and undies for a dress. “Sometimes, if we don’t have exactly the right thing, we end up building it. It’s like a Frankenstein situation,” says Swennen, who recalled sewing a pair of Spanx shorts to a low-back bra to refine and correspond with a backless dress. Or “we might end up just being a little bit MacGyver-y and safety-pin it last-minute,” she adds. Len recalled a similar situation, which required sewing a high-waisted Spanx short to a strapless bra — while the client was already encased in the pieces. “In order to take [the undergarments] off, you have to cut it off,” Lee admitted. “She can’t go pee.”

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While that case takes serious dedication from the celebrity (and a restraint in quaffing free-flowing champagne), other seemingly risqué situations don’t actually take that much commitment. Namely, wearing the sheer illusion dress, or, as we like to call it, the Naked Dress. Spoiler: Celebrities aren’t really that naked underneath — Rihanna at the CFDA Awards notwithstanding — because most likely, the stylist has stealthily augmented the dress with some sort of flesh-toned lining.

“For instance, J.Lo’s not naked underneath, I guarantee you,” says Len. “They’re great on choosing the exact fabric color that goes underneath.” Then she pauses. “Maybe she is, who knows. She’s amazing.” But for Len’s less adventurous clients, the secret to trick-of-the-eye nudity is matching the underwear or sewn-in lining to the wearer’s exact skin tone. “[The lining] can cover your nipples and certain areas, but since it’s the color of your skin, it’s the illusion of you wearing nothing underneath,” she explains. Evans also looks to high-tech, ultra-thin, raw-edge slips and bodysuits “that are like a second skin.”

The same strategy works for adding coverage to a skin-baring and wardrobe-malfunction-risking cutout dress. “If the cutout is in a specific place where you can wear an undergarment and it just looks like your skin, you can get away with it,” Swennen says. “But otherwise, to be honest, it’s really a free-for-all in there. You gotta just go as is.”

But, of course, #notallcelebrities. “Amy [Schumer] would prefer at all times to go without shapewear because she’s very much a person who likes comfort, but she also will agree that sometimes shapewear just does exactly what I said,” Evans says. “It gives you great posture and it makes you feel good, and anything that does that — how can that be wrong?”

Although, there’s only so much one can suffer for their craft. “I’ve had women do a ditch [midway into the] night,” laughs Swennen. “All of a sudden, ‘Where’s my Spanx?’ ‘Oh, it’s in the bin. I’m sorry, I threw it out at the Academy Awards. I couldn’t deal with it.’”



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Rachel McAdams Goes Platinum — & It's So Good

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Going platinum might be one of the boldest beauty looks one can attempt. To wit: Remember when Kim K went white-blond and almost broke the internet? The latest celeb to try the hue is Rachel McAdams, who is in the running for Best Supporting Actress at this Sunday's Oscars. She just went full-on platinum, showing off her new look at a dinner on Wednesday.


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McAdams showed up with a sleek, platinum bob and wearing a deep-blue David Koma dress. Her date? Sister and makeup artist Kayleen McAdams.

Of course, going from dirty-blond to platinum is an easier process than, say, jet-black to platinum, but it's dramatic nonetheless. It's par for the course for McAdams. The actress' breakout role in TheNotebook showed her as a brunette, she was blond in Mean Girls, had a dramatic ombré in True Detective, and even dabbled with strawberry-red hair in 2005. But this platinum? It might be our favorite.

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There Is Something Really Annoying About Leo's Inevitable Win

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Come Sunday, if all goes as expected, Leonardo DiCaprio will win an Oscar for his performance as fur-trapper Hugh Glass in The Revenant. But should he? That's another story. Make no mistake: I believe that DiCaprio is a talented actor with a varied and interesting body of work. I'm just frustrated with the narrative surrounding his Oscar quest, and the secret sexism that comes with it.

There's a prevailing sense that DiCaprio's moment of glory is long overdue, and that he has earned this award not just by surviving a bear-mauling in The Revenant, but for having turned in solid performances since 1993. (That's an age-old argument that the Academy gobbles up, by the way. Think Al Pacino winning Best Actor, finally, for Scent of a Woman in 1993.) In 2014, a chorus of "It's Leo's time!" greeted DiCaprio's fourth Oscar nomination, for The Wolf of Wall Street. But it was all but certain that Matthew McConaughey was going to win that year for Dallas Buyers Club— and he did — which left Leo assuming the role of Oscar's unlucky bridesmaid. Again.

As soon as awards pundits saw The Revenant late last year, they reached the conclusion that a great wrong would be righted at last. The Best Actor race was basically over before it even started.

DiCaprio has done his part to keep this narrative alive, working his butt off to convince the public just how method he went. (Animal carcass? Slept in. Raw bison liver? Consumed.) DiCaprio has made it clear that he wants this award — desperately. In fact, "desperate" is one of the words fans associated with him in online comments, according to Grammarly.

And, sure, DiCaprio’s Inigo Montoya-esque dedication to Oscar glory hasn’t escaped mockery over the years. A meme chronicling his existential sadness over his lack of a trophy has only gained strength. After the 2014 ceremony, Tumblr users portrayed DiCaprio as Elsa from Frozen, trying to let it go. The Onion published the headline: "Leonardo DiCaprio Hopes He Screamed And Cried Good Enough In ‘The Revenant’ To Win Oscar." Recently, an animation company released an internet video game called “Leo’s Red Carpet Rampage.”

But all this is merely good-natured ribbing compared to what Anne Hathaway underwent during the 2013 race. Just as DiCaprio did for The Revenant, Hathaway pushed her body to extremes for her role in Les Misérables. Like DiCaprio, she campaigned hard for the prize she so obviously wanted to claim. But instead of inspiring some goofy but harmless memes, Hathaway's ambition gave rise to something much crueler: Hathahate.

The tone became especially nasty following the Golden Globes, when Hathaway was faulted for pretending to be surprised that she won. Can you really argue that DiCaprio didn't have that same smug awareness at this year's ceremony? He even shoehorned a political message into his speech. Tell me that wasn't perfectly rehearsed. (Or that Hathaway didn't do the same thing when she won her Oscar.)

It's sexism, pure and simple (even if it's not the biggest offense the Academy has committed this year). Even Leo's BFF Kate Winslet was targeted (notably by the British press) in 2009, when she was on the road to her first Oscar win, for The Reader, following five previous nominations. The Daily Mail published a story asking, "Should Kate Winslet win an Oscar for the world's most irritating actress?" (Winslet later won a libel suit over that story.) The criticism followed her for years.

This attitude also works against actresses who haven't been as mercilessly ripped to shreds by the public as Hathaway has. Take Amy Adams. Where is the crowd demanding her Oscar victory? She has just as many nominations as DiCaprio, only amassed over a shorter time span. In 2014, she was assuredly going to lose to Cate Blanchett, but there was no outcry on Adams' behalf as there was in the Leo-vs.-McConaughey round. Sure, there are counterarguments. Hathaway, when she was running, didn't have as many nominations under her belt as DiCaprio does. The public doesn't have the same emotional connection to Adams as they do to Leo, whom they've watched evolve from teen heartthrob to auteurs' muse. Regardless, it's hard to get around the reality that there is a clear double standard at work here. DiCaprio is a dude who dates supermodels, collaborates with Martin Scorsese, and, to many, will forever be Jack from Titanic. (Will you ever let go?) Hathaway, Winslet, and Adams are...women.

Complicating this debate are the questions about whether DiCaprio's performance in The Revenant is even any good. I, for one, left the movie feeling like I didn't really know who his character is. All I was sure of was that Glass has a seemingly endless tolerance for pain and grits his teeth — a lot. But whether it's DiCaprio's best work is immaterial. His name will be called Sunday night, he'll give a heartfelt speech, and he'll pose gleefully with his shiny trophy.

Maybe there will be a few lighthearted memes that pop up Monday morning to counteract the all those "Poor Leo" ones, but we can be all but certain that #LoathingLeo won't be trending on Twitter.



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This Is What It's Like To Be "Depressed While Black"

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Our society hasn't exactly made it easy on those with mental illnesses. But as Imade Nibokun explains in the latest video for Project UROK, people of color face unique challenges in getting help for mental health issues.

"Depression was something that was hovering in the background that I just got use to," Nibokun says. "[It was] almost like a pair of shoes that you wear in." She found herself in grad school racing along the highway "wanting to die," which made her realize that she needed to get help.

On her blog, Depressed While Black, Nibokun writes about the particular stigmas and barriers to care for people of color with mental illnesses. "Growing up I thought depression was a 'white person disease,'" Nibokun explains in the video, "that depression is just not something that we do as Black people... I really had to learn that I am worth the care."

And with the recent suicide of MarShawn M. McCarrel II, a prominent Black Lives Matter activist, Nibokun says mental health issues are colliding with other social justice issues in new ways. "It gave a wake-up call to all of us that there need to be healing spaces for Black Lives Matter activists," she explains, "because it takes us being whole mentally to fight oppression."




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Kim Kardashian Had A Clever Kanye-Inspired Rant

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Kim Kardashian just dedicated a page of her website to the #1 man in her life. Her inspiration, her other-half, her husband — the one and only, Kanye West.

The man of the moment has been clogging our Twitter newsfeed for weeks now with his rants, ranging from industry-wide criticism to the price of textbooks. The man has no bounds.

Because of all this, Kim took to her own platform to set the record straight on where she stood regarding her husband's multiple uncensored outbursts. And she is, as predicted, Team Kanye.

To let us fully grasp just how completely Team Yeezy she is, she walked us through her current list of what she is currently obsessed with. I think Kanye would be proud of her ranting skills. They are listed as follows:


CURRENTLY

... LOVING MY HUSBAND

...HATING
THAT PEOPLE DON'T GET THAT KANYE WILL STAND UP AGAINST THE WHOLE WORLD FOR HIS CREATIVITY AND ART.

...LISTENING TO
"I LOVE KANYE"

...WEARING
YEEZY SEASON 3 SAMPLES I TOOK FROM THE SHOW

...WANTING
EVERYONE TO BE AS HONEST AS KANYE

...WATCHING
KANYE SHOOT HIS NEW VIDEO

...READING
KANYE'S TWEETS

And of course, her KIMOJI MOOD is a well-manicured middle-finger. Assuming this one goes out to the Kanye haters.





He's really got that love locked down.






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What Your Favorite Celebrities Will Be Eating At The Oscars

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The post-Oscars meal is an important one for winners and losers alike. The celebs bringing home gold will need some fun food to Instagram next to their trophies (just to mix it up with the hardware selfies) and the less lucky stars will want to indulge in some serious comfort food.

Enter Wolfgang Puck, the chef who has been feeding the Academy Awards' special guests for more than two decades. This year, the spread at the post-Oscars celebration known as the Governors Ball is appropriately impressive. The eats include two rounds of hors d'oeuvres as well as hot and cold plate offerings. Probably most exciting of all, there's the massive chocolate buffet. The sugary smorgasbord includes chocolate chip cookies, tiramisu push pops, and a chocolate fountain.






So, don't feel too bad for the actors who don't take home gold this year. At least they'll be very well fed.



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Chris Christie Endorses Trump For President

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Republican presidential hopeful Donald Trump scored a major political endorsement heading into Super Tuesday — and it's from a former rival.

New Jersey Governor Chris Christie threw his support behind Trump in a news conference on Friday, according to The New York Times.

“I am proud to be here to endorse Donald Trump,” Christie told the press, adding that the businessman “will do exactly what needs to be done to make America a leader around the world again.” Trump, also attending the conference, welcomed the endorsement and cited his history with the governor.

“He’s been my friend for many years, he’s been a spectacular governor,” Trump said.

Christie and Trump were opponents in the race for the Republican presidential nomination until just a few weeks ago. Christie suspended his campaign on February 10 after a sixth-place finish in the New Hampshire primary. Trump finished first in the same state, the beginning of a run of victories in the contests leading up to Super Tuesday, when 11 states will hold caucuses or primaries.

Christie isn’t Trump’s first endorsement from an elected official — just last week, he was endorsed by GOP Representative Duncan Hunter, Politico reported.

But it is his first from both a sitting governor and a former rival in the presidential race, a prestige that could potentially add to Trump's steam in coming primaries. And it comes at a time when his remaining rivals, including Senators Ted Cruz and Marco Rubio, are fighting to convince voters and donors that they're a viable alternative to the frontrunner. Continuing to pick up endorsements from big political names, particularly those with ties to the GOP establishment, could give Trump even more momentum in the race for the nomination.





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12 Easy Steps To Upgrade Your Résumé

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No matter what industry you may be applying for, résumés still matter. And even if you’ve gotten an interview due to connections (some statistics cite that over 70% of jobs are landed due to networking), you’ve still got to produce a piece of paper formally listing your credentials. Here, how to rock your résumé — so you can focus on nailing the interview.



Not only do the lines take up valuable space, but the not-so-necessary info can subconsciously sway recruiters and hiring managers. They might see an out-of-the way address and assume you won’t handle the commute well or see an out-of-state city and assume you aren’t interested in the position. A telephone number and email address is enough.

Surprisingly, tons of hiring managers say their biggest pet peeve is getting oddly formatted résumés in their inbox. Saving and sending as a PDF is the bare minimum of professionalism; if you haven’t gotten into the habit yet, do so now.

In this day and age, you can and should expect recruiters to assess you based on your digital life. Help them out by adding a link to your LinkedIn, as well as your Twitter handle or Instagram account, if you’re an influencer who has a big network. Having that information on your résumé shows you understand that your virtual life is one more part of how you present yourself.

If you’re applying through a portal, chances are, your résumé is being scanned before it gets in the hands of a human, says Dana Leavy-Detrick, résumé consultant and chief creative scribe at the Brooklyn Résumé Studio. Choose SEO-optimized words for your industry (look at the job profile and use as many of those words as possible).

For example, if you’re applying for a marketing manager position and the job description states it's looking for a candidate that has CMS and marketing automation experience, make sure the résumé you’re submitting through a job portal contains those keywords. For an in-person interview, you can rely on a more creative, less jargon-driven version to show the hiring manager.

Grew traffic by 30%? Managed $1 million in assets? Whatever it is, using numbers is way more effective than just words, says résumé designer Hagan Blount. Check out some examples of how he’s managed to incorporate hard numbers in résumé designs, here.

People may see that you graduated a decade ago and consider you too experienced for a position, regardless of whether you switched career paths. Less than five may make you seen too green. Katie, 32, an editor, noticed that her résumé got a lot more attention once she took her graduation year off.

“I know it’s anecdotal, but I decided to follow the editorial track when I was 27. I was a lot older than the other people gunning for assistant positions, and when I had my graduation year and all my other jobs listed, the hiring managers would assume I didn’t want to be an assistant. That wasn’t true. I didn’t lie, but I found that not having years on my résumé made it a lot easier to keep the focus of the discussion based on what I could do and how I could benefit the company.”

Based on what job you’re applying for, you should have résumés that highlight different experiences and skill sets, says Leavy-Detrick. For example, say your dream job is a copywriter, but you’re also applying for admin assistant positions to pay the bills. Highlight your copy writing experiences on one résumé by putting internships and freelance projects front and center. You should have a separate admin assistant résumé that focuses on the office manager job you held or the fact you managed multiple phone lines during an internship. Yes, it’s annoying, but not as annoying as having a generic résumé ignored by dozens of hiring managers.

If your résumé looks a little bare, or you have a lot of temp or freelance jobs, consider buffering it with a volunteer position, especially if you’ve taken on a leadership role or did major fundraising. Anything that shows you have the skills needed to succeed in a workplace, suggests Leavy-Detrick.

Think in terms of a transferable skill set. Did you manage $50,000 in donations? Coordinate a 150-person event? Successfully solicit donations from 10 businesses, netting $100,000 in goods? These skills are ones that a hiring manager can immediately visualize as beneficial in the office.

It takes up a line and it’s obvious. Other obvious lines to delete: The fact you’re familiar with Microsoft Word or Excel — newsflash, that’s like saying you know how to use your smartphone. And résumé experts are split about having a line offering hobbies or interests: If you must include (or to fill the line on the LinkedIn profile) make sure you choose something that makes you seem like a great job candidate. For example, marathon training shows dedication. Seeking out the perfect food truck taco? Not so much.

Your résumé should be all about the numbers, along with concise descriptions of what you do on a daily basis. Don't waste valuable space trying to explain the intricacies of your job, such as your ability to manage a micromanager or how you mentor younger employees. Those skills are better saved for interviews when you can really go into detail.

Don’t worry so much about chronological order, especially if you’ve had a few concurrent freelance or contract roles, suggests Leavy-Detrick. Employers are much more interested in seeing that you have relevant experience in the industry that you’re applying to. If you’ve had to keep yourself afloat with temp work during employment lulls, explain that in the interview, but keep your paper résumé focused on the gigs you’ve had that match the current job description you’re applying for.

More than two years out? It's time to take off information about what you did in college, unless it was something extraordinary (like founding a business that’s still running). If you had some impressive internships, relegate them to one or two lines, but keep the focus on what you’ve done post-graduation. And on that note, ditch the GPA. You can say you graduated cum laude, but avoid the specific number, which can make you seem young, say experts.



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Emma Watson Reveals Her Love For Sex Ed Website OMGYes

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Emma Watson has spent much of her time post-Harry Potteradvocating for women. So it's only natural that she'd be looking out for women's sex lives by recommending a particularly useful sex ed site: OMGYes.

During a conversation with Gloria Steinem at a How To Academy talk this week, the actress said that she's been a paying subscriber to OMGYes ever since a friend tipped her off to it. The sex tutorial site features a touchscreen interface to create "touchable" video lessons based on studies of over 2,000 women. Want to know exactly how to achieve multiple orgasms? This is the place to go.

"I wish it had been around longer," Watson said. "Definitely check it out."

Both men and women are welcome to join the site, and membership is, in fact, about 50-50, according to the New York Daily News. (Watson didn't say whether or not boyfriend Roberto Aguire is a member, too.)

Currently, OMGYes charges a one-time payment to subscribe for $29, and Watson made one thing clear: "It's worth it."

This month, we're sharing steamy personal stories, exploring ways to have even better sex, and wading through the complicated dynamics that follow us into the bedroom. Here's to a very happy February. Check out more right here.




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This May Be The Saddest Episode Of Grey's Anatomy Yet

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Last night's Grey's Anatomypoured over Jackson (Jesse Williams) and April's (Sarah Drew) shorter-than-it-seemed marriage, showcasing the swoon-worthy moments. He objected at her other wedding, terrible IRL, but always adorable on screen — and the seemingly endless fights. But what was really powerful about the hour was its depiction of a couple dealing with the loss of a child, and how it can destroy a relationship.


The now-estranged couple's fights were almost always tied to the fact that April left to work as an Army doctor overseas twice — first, soon after the death of their son, Samuel, who suffered from a fatal birth defeat and died shortly after he was born, and then again, after Jackson asked her to stay. Their argument went around in circles for countless episodes, April claimed she felt she had to leave, while Jackson stated that she should have wanted to stay. However, in a flashback scene last night, April explained what truly had them at odds. She felt she was grieving more acutely, and that Jackson seemed like he was coping quite well in comparison.

It was a portrait of the kind of "for worse" moment in a marriage that rarely receives attention on TV.

Their very different ways of handling the loss led to tragic misunderstandings, which ultimately doomed their relationship. April believed she was alone in her sadness, so she isolated herself from her husband, and tried to find solace in others. By feigning some measure of peace, Jackson was both unable to process his feelings, and unable to connect with his wife.

Both literal missed connections and the inability to comprehend where the other was coming from dominated the rest of the flashback scenes tied to Samuel's death. On the one-year anniversary of Samuel's death, April is desperate to talk to Jackson, but she can't get a cell signal overseas. Meanwhile, Jackson has destroyed what would have been Samuel's nursery, in a grief-fueled rage, thinking his wife forgot the day completely.


Reflecting back even further, when April couldn't even leave Samuel's nursery to go to work following his death, Jackson feels like he's comforting her by suggesting they could have another child. April is horrified by the idea, and very upset with her husband as a result. Jackson then recedes into himself, and is convinced they can't support each other after this loss.


It's a very Grey's move to end the dissolution of the marriage, which was affected by the loss of a child, with the hope of reconciliation based on another child — April might be pregnant! But the episode was more than just a sneaky way to introduce the next bit of drama, it was a portrait of the kind of "for worse" moment in a marriage that rarely receives attention on TV.



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America may not have invented pizza, but it has certainly taken the food group to new heights. And we're talking way more than just stuffed crust. Stray off the beaten path, and there is no shortage of weird, wacky, and delicious pies.

Just ask chef and expert Craig Priebe, whose recent book, The United States of Pizza, includes recipes for the best pizzas across the country. Drawing his inspiration from the local chains and mom-and-pop restaurants that have been under the radar for years, Priebe takes his readers on a culinary road trip for their taste buds, with toppings that range from fresh corn to mac and cheese.

So what exactly do America's weirdest pizzas look like? Priebe shared some of his favorites with us, and we only have one question left: Which one do we eat first?

The Pie: Taco Pizza
The Spot:
Lomato’s Pizza (Hays, KS)
Toppings: beef, refried beans, salsa, shredded lettuce

The Pie: Baked Mac + Cheese Pizza
The Spot:
Jimmy the Greek's Pizza (Old Orchard, ME)
Toppings: homemade macaroni and cheese, mozzarella, cheddar, cracker crumbs

The Pie: Salmon Pizza
The Spot:
Dolce Vita (Decorah, IA)
Toppings: salmon, red onion, capers

The Pie: Chicken Curry Pizza
The Spot: Z Pizza (Honolulu)
Toppings: chicken curry, chutney, sweet potatoes

The Pie: Grilled Pear Pizza
The Spot:Red Fox Bar & Grille (Jackson, NH)
Toppings: grilled pears, bacon, Gruyère

The Pie: Corn Pizza
The Spot:Zelo Gourmet Pizza (Arcadia, CA)
Toppings: fresh corn, smoked cheese, balsamic-roasted red onions

The Pie: Ahi Tuna Pizza
The Spot: Fratelli La Bufala (Miami)
Toppings: seared tuna, tomato sauce, capers

The Pie: Deep-Dish Reuben Pizza with Zucchini Pickle Relish
The Spot: Dove Vivi (Portland, OR)
Toppings: corned beef, swiss cheese, sauerkraut

The Pie: Grilled Pizza Calamari
The Spot: Al Forno (Providence, RI)
Toppings: calamari, spicy tomato sauce, lemon

The Pie: Darkwing Duck Pizza
The Spot: Roberta's Pizza (Brooklyn, NY)
Toppings: duck prosciutto, brussels sprouts, balsamic vinegar



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How To Become A Runner Even If You Hate Running

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For most of my adult life, I thought running was useful only for catching a departing subway train. And even then, another F train was bound to come sometime, right? So when my boyfriend, Maurice, signed me up for a “surprise 5K race!” (yup, that happened), you’d think I would’ve left him standing there in his running gear. No worries, there are other fish in the sea, I would’ve told myself on my leisurely walk back to the train.

And yet there I was, excitedly pinning on my racing number to run a terrifying (to me) 3.1 miles in NYC's Riverside Park. How is it that in a few months, I went from abhorring running, finding it about as scary as one of those dreams where you forgot to study for your final exam, to being one of those people who thinks a surprise 5K is an exciting idea for date night?

The thing is, I’ve always enjoyed exercise — just not running. Never running. As a workout-class junkie, I’m not ashamed to admit that I have an underwear drawer full of grippy barre studio socks. Yet open as I was to trying different fitness trends — whether it involved trampolines or aerial downward-facing dogs — running, one of the most basic exercises you can do, scared the crap out of me.

I was always one of the slowest kids in my elementary school’s biannual mile run, huffing and puffing across the finish line, flushed from head to toe. And then there was that episode of Friends where Rachel is embarrassed to be seen running with Phoebe because of her, ahem, “form.” In my adolescent mind, I was Phoebe, always Phoebe, and that anxiety lasted into adulthood. I avoided treadmills (no Barry’s Bootcamp for me!) and laughed and rolled to the other side of the bed whenever Maurice invited me on morning jogs — rationalizing it was boring and painful, but really just worried that I’d be really bad at it and embarrass myself.

I don’t know what made me start questioning my reticence. Maybe it was the smiling joggers who came out of hibernation to race alongside the Hudson River as the weather thawed after a brutal winter; maybe it was the promise (after promise after promise) from Maurice that he wouldn’t laugh at me for my low speed or flailing form — but one day I was feeling antsy, and I wanted to see if I could maybe, sort of survive a light jog.

And I did survive it. It’s not like I was marathon-ready after that first jog or anything (I’m not even sure I could say I liked it at that point), but I did get a tiny glimpse into what it could be like to enjoy running. Here’s how I got from absolutely not to running my first 5K.



Just Get Started
I first tried conquering my irrational fear on an early spring day, when I couldn’t find an appealing workout class. For better or worse, the only way to start running is to literally start running — and so that’s what I did, putting one foot quickly in front of the other. I wanted to prove to myself not only that I could run, but that I could run fast. This is almost too easy, I thought as I sprinted the first quarter-mile. And it was. That is…until it wasn’t.

I ended up doing a lot more walking than I had planned on my first real venture out — but according to coach and creator of Mile High Run Club Debora Warner, starting slow is the way to do it.

“I wouldn’t recommend someone to just go out and run a full mile without stopping,” Warner tells Refinery29. “That is the No. 1 reason why new runners get discouraged: because they will try running one or two miles and will get tired [ed. note: or injured]. Start with light interval training. Two minutes on, two minutes off. Structure doesn’t really matter in the beginning; it [is about] the fitness level of the individual.”

And so I did just that: alternating between running and walking — trying to run a little more than I walked every time.

Buy The Right Shoes
Once I started running more regularly, I decided to reward myself by upgrading my ratty sneakers from college to a flashy new pair of shoes. At first, I didn’t realize that I needed new shoes for more than aesthetic reasons.

I went into Paragon Sports only caring about what color sneaker I was going to get. But I quickly learned that there were more important factors to consider than blue or purple accents, like: How high is my arch? Am I a heel striker or a forefoot striker? Do I pronate??? It was head-spinning, and it definitely made me feel like I had no idea what I was doing. But thankfully the salesperson didn’t laugh me out of the store, and instead helped to identify my personal foot needs after a quick gait test. (This means he analyzed my run on a treadmill. A.k.a. he watched me run, and — what do you know? — he didn’t laugh either.)

It turned out that the foot cramps I was experiencing weren’t just a normal result of running — they were a side effect of bad shoes. And according to Warner, I may have gotten off lucky. The wrong pair of kicks can result in shin splints or other injuries that take awhile to heal. “If you’re scuba diving, gear is important,” said Warner. “Why would running be any different?”

Run Like No One's Watching
I still think of Phoebe Buffay as my running idol, because now I just don’t care if I look crazy. It was helpful to realize that in real life, there is no Rachel Green, and absolutely no one cared how I looked when I ran. No one scoffed at my klutzy form or rolled their eyes when I slowed to a snail’s pace. In fact, when I stopped freaking out about making eye contact with other runners, I realized that my fellow joggers were actually smiling and nodding as we passed one another. Suddenly I was part of a club filled with everyone from old ladies power-walking in matching shirts to hot power brokers sprinting without any shirts. People who run understand that it’s hard. And they’re nothing but supportive of anyone who’s trying.

It seems silly now, perhaps, that I didn’t get this, but it’s freeing to learn that insecurities are best let go of so you can just enjoy yourself. (Which, it turns out, was the moral of the Friends episode to begin with. Somehow my awkward, pre-teen self missed that part, probably because at the time I was already convinced people were analyzing my every move. They weren’t.)

All this is not to say that learning about good form is a bad idea, though. If interested, you can learn the basics from an Olympian here.

Run With A Buddy
Once I realized I was a part of this not-so-secret running club and no one thought I was a freak (because, really, what kind of monster would?), I decided it was time to finally accept Maurice’s invitation to join him on a morning jog. Although I was a little afraid of running in front of someone I knew, it didn’t take long to find out that I loved having a running buddy. Not only does it turn a jog into a social event, but it helps keep me accountable. I’m way less likely to bail on a run if I’m letting down another person, rather than just myself.

“Another reason to have a running buddy is to find someone who’s better at it who can challenge you to do it a little faster,” Warner said, noting that this tactic depends on the person. “Some people are highly motivated; some people like to run alone because it’s me-time and a time to escape.” If you truly enjoy it as your special time, skip this step.

Make A Killer Playlist
For the times when I’m on my own and don’t have a running buddy to motivate me, I find it enormously helpful to run to a beat.

There are running purists who don’t believe in obstructing the experience by listening to music (and some races won’t even allow headphones!). To each their own, but if you ask me, running with music is a must. In fact, it’s part of the fun.

“I’ve always been dependent on music,” adds Warner, who has incorporated carefully curated playlists and sometimes live DJ sets into her classes at Mile High Run Club. “Music makes me push myself harder, because if I get excited about the song I’ll run faster. Anything that supports the activity and makes it more enjoyable, everyone should embrace.”

When I don’t need a heavy bass line to keep up my pace, I might switch over to a podcast — catching up on This American Life on Mondays, Here to Make Friends on Tuesdays, and Serial on Thursdays. This, I’ve found, can really break up some of the monotony, and it gives me an extra reason to look forward to my run.

Set Realistic Goals
When I first started running, I made the mistake of trying to tackle distances I simply wasn’t ready for right off the bat because, hey, a mile doesn’t sound like a lot, right? Wrong. At least for my body in the beginning.

Trying to do too much too fast can actually backfire and curb future enthusiasm. So while there’s nothing wrong with having a goal — whether it’s achieving a certain mile time or signing up for a race — start small and then work your way up. The only reason why I survived and, dare I say it, enjoyed my 5K was because I was ready by then.

For a lot of runners, racing is most of the fun. “I’ve never forgotten a single race,” says Warner. “I remember three years ago, Kanye West’s “Monster” was playing [when I ran] in Times Square for the New York City Half.” But you don’t have to make running a race your ultimate goal. (I was signed up kind of under duress, after all.) Your goal can be whatever you want it to be.

Just Keep Going
The longer I run, the more reasons I find to do it. For example, I just finished writing a book, but when I got stuck on a chapter (which happened a lot), I found that taking a break for a jog could prevent a blank-Word-document-induced panic attack. Not only did running release my nervous energy, but focusing on putting one foot in front of the other made it impossible to freak out over what plot point should come next. I was able to return from a jog with a clearer head and a brighter attitude. Thanks, endorphins.

It’s also incredibly gratifying to see your hard work pay off. Every new distance milestone is a rush, and I’m almost embarrassed to admit how excited I was the first time I was able to maintain a coherent conversation while jogging. (I didn’t even think such a thing was possible!)

It’s not always rainbows and butterflies. There are still days when I don’t feel like going, or when I don’t have as much energy or stamina as I did on my last run, and it can feel a little bit like I’m the caterpillar in one those math problems: pulling myself two difficult inches up, then sliding three sad inches back down. But I’ve found that almost always, a bad run can lead to the next day’s best. Run. Ever. All you have to do to get there is put one foot in front of the other. And do it again. And again.



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Having Trouble Falling Asleep? Try These Science-Backed Tips

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Falling asleep is a natural process, so it should be easy, right? Ha! We wish. Of course, we've all had trouble getting to sleep at some point. But for many of us, it's a nightly struggle.

According to the CDC, about a third of us get fewer than six hours of sleep every night. But insomnia is actually more common among women than men. Without sleep, we have a harder time feeling optimistic and having gratitude. Weirdly, we also find it harder to have a sense of humor. And unfortunately, sleep deprivation can cause some seriously impaired driving.

We've heard all the classic advice (keep your timing consistent, limit caffeine, get your exercise in), but we're ready for the next steps. To help all of us get those necessary ZZZs, we're collecting our favorite sleep tips — all backed by recent studies.






Grab Some Extra Fiber
Our meals and our ZZZ's are more connected than we realize. So what you eat can have a huge impact on how you sleep that night. And, as new research suggests, you can plan your food for the ultimate snooze.

The study, published recently in the Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine, tracked what 26 participants ate and how they slept for five nights in a lab. Interestingly, they found that participants who ate more saturated fats and refined carbs tended to wake up more often during the night and spend less time in the deepest, more restorative stages of sleep.

On the flip side, those who ate more fiber experienced a deeper sleep. So try to fill up on leafy greens and whole grains during the day for more refreshing dream-filled nights.

Curb The Social Media Madness
We know that using our various screens too close to bedtime can mess with our ability to drift off into dreamland. But a new study suggests there may be something particularly troubling about using those screens to catch up with our social media platform of choice.

In the study, to be published in an upcoming issue of Preventive Medicine, about 1,800 young adults (between the ages of 19 and 32) were asked about their social media use and sleeping habits. Those who used their various social media apps more often and for longer durations reported more frequent sleep disturbances.

So it's not just that you're looking at the screen, but what you're looking at. And as our own Lucie Fink recently found out, cutting down that virtual friend time may also help us remember what matters most IRL.

Try Melatonin — But Not Every Night
Supplements are tricky. What works for one person won't for another — or maybe, it'll give that person insane dreams and fatigue the next day. And because supplements aren't regulated like other drugs, there's not always a lot of solid research out there to go on. But melatonin is a pretty solid choice for sleep troubles, just know it's more effective in some situations than others.

In one study, melatonin was able to knock out participants in a hospital — even when surrounded by noise. But it doesn't seem like those beneficial effects stick around for too long. In a 2013 study of long-term melatonin use, the benefits wore off after 6 to 12 months of consistent use. So although melatonin may be great for emergency use, it's not something you want to end up relying on.

Don't Be Afraid To Call On A Professional
If you're dealing with nearly constant insomnia, you might want to seek some outside help. And although that might sound intimidating, a recent study found that most people got better sleep after just one session of therapy.

Specifically, this and other research has shown that cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) can help those with insomnia. This type of therapy focuses on giving people tools to assess their thought and behavior patterns and make concrete steps towards improving them. But this study suggests that getting that improvement doesn't have to be a huge investment.



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Land's End Apologized To Angry Customers For Featuring Gloria Steinem In Its Catalog

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For the past year, Land's End has been working hard on reinventing itself with a slight luxury skew, creating a shift to attract millennial customers without alienating a loyal fan base. But the new Land's End proved to be a bit too much for longtime customers this past week — though it had nothing to do with design revamps. After the brand ran an interview with Gloria Steinem in its catalog and on its website, scores of pro-life customers took to Facebook express their anger. In response to customers' incensed reactions, the wholesome retailer took the interview down and apologized.

Commenters accused the brand of being "anti-child" for featuring the pro-choice feminist icon. Some customers expressed that they wouldn't be shopping at the brand or dressing their kids in Land's End threads.

"Those of us who love family, love children, are completely puzzled why you would promote a very vocal pro-abortion celebrity. Is this who you are, Land's End?"one customer wrote.

The interview was part of the retailer's "Legend Series," which honors "individuals with different interests and backgrounds that have made a difference." It was conducted by the brand's CEO of one year, Federica Marchionni (a former Dolce & Gabbana exec tasked with bringing a bit of approachable luxury to to the brand). Interestingly, Marchionni and Steinem didn't actually discuss abortion in the feature.





“Lands’ End is committed to providing our loyal customers and their families with stylish, affordable, well-made clothing. We greatly respect and appreciate the passion people have for our brand," a spokesperson for the brand told Refinery29. "It was never our intention to raise a divisive political or religious issue, so when some of our customers saw a recent promotion that way, we heard them. We sincerely apologize for any offense.”

In addition to taking down the story and apologizing for promoting Steinem online and in its catalog, Land's End also removed an option to donate to the ERA Coalition Fund For Women's Equality. (Customers could add the ERA logo to their purchase, like, say, on a tote bag; $3 would be given to the ERA.)

The situation could potentially impact Land's End's robust school uniform business; the company supplies uniforms for approximately 5,000 schools. Two Catholic schools in Missouri decided to stop working with the retailer as a result of Steinem being featured in its catalog.






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How Fuller House Managed To Ruin Full House Forever

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Everywhere you looked over the past few months, there was some sort of news about Fuller House, Netflix’s reboot of the T.G.I.F. classic, Full House. That show, which is basically a more saccharine Three Men and a Baby, ran from 1987 to 1995 and gave us such catchphrases as, “You got it, dude,” “How rude,” “Have mercy,” and “The Olsen twins are billionaires.” Actually, that last one isn’t a catchphrase so much as a reality of life that we’ve all come to accept.

Millennials love them some nostalgia, though. We’re precious as fuck about our youth and we love nothing more than talking about shows we watched during our formative years. We will also click through many GIFsticles about this topic on sites that rhyme with Fuzzbeed and we’ll take infinite quizzes to find out if we’re more like Stephanie, D.J., or Michelle. (I’m a D.J.) We do it on Refinery29 as well, because it's really fun to talk about the TV shows that shaped our identities.

The nostalgia obsession has actually led production companies and networks to reboot several popular shows and movies from our youth, like Disney did with Boy Meets World— another T.G.I.F. classic that’s been revived as Girl Meets World. We’re also getting an all-female Ghostbusters, more Gilmore Girls, and The X-Files just returned.

And now, after months of teasing, trailers, and talk, we’re finally getting season 1 of Fuller House. And oh my goodness, is it terrible. No, really; it will actually depress you to watch it. You will ask yourself the following questions during the pilot and second episode, both of which I subjected myself to, so you don’t have to:

1. Was the original this bad?

2. No, really, was Full House this terrible and I just didn’t realize because I was a child whose standards for television were much, much lower?

3. Why are all of the jokes so sexual? Did Stephanie (Jodie Sweetin) really just say, “My eyes are up here” and “I know this might look like lunch, but this Dairy Queen is closed,” while she was holding D.J.'s (Candace Cameron Bure) baby at chest-level and wearing an extremely revealing top?

4. I remember there being family sing-alongs and group dancing, but were they this annoyingly self-aware about it on the original? Is there any way it can feel more organic and less “WE KNOW WE ARE DOING THIS FOR AN AUDIENCE THAT SITS IN OUR LIVING ROOM AND LAUGHS AT OUR ANTICS AND ISN'T IT CUTE?!”

5. While I’m on the topic of breaking the fourth wall, did they have to straight-up slam the Olsen twins this way? Here’s how they acknowledge Michelle’s (Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen) absence:

Stephanie strolls into the house after some time away in England, where she’s been trying to make it as a DJ. (She goes by the name of DJ Tanner, isn’t that hilarious?) Anyway, Stephanie asks where Michelle is. Danny (Bob Saget) responds that Michelle is in New York, running her fashion empire.

It’s extremely on-the-nose, because we all know that Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen really do run a fashion empire. They’re extremely good at it and they’ve even got the CFDA awards to prove it. Regardless of whether the Olsens could predict what a treacly mess Fuller House was going to be when they were asked to be involved, they decided to opt out. The cast should respect them for their decision.

Does Stephanie simply nod and move onto her next line? Nope. The entire family — Stephanie, D.J., Danny, Joey (Dave Coulier), Becky (Lori Loughlin), and Jesse (John Stamos) — has now assembled in front of the kitchen island, where devoted fans of the series will remember the cast taking its final bows when Full House ended in 1995. They turn directly to the camera and deliver looks that say, “Those twins we raised up from infants when their mother was killed by a drunk driver couldn’t even make the time or effort to come pack up the house? They don’t write. They don’t call. They don't text. They don’t send us free pieces from The Row or Elizabeth & James. Can you believe this shit?”

Yeah. The cast members know that they didn’t actually raise Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen, right? And the twins actually made the smartest decision ever by not appearing on this drivel of a reboot?

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But I digress, because the pointed Michelle snub is just one moment in time when it comes to numerous ways in which Fuller House will disappoint you. Although did I mention the uncomfortable scatological humor in what is really a show that should be watched by 7-to-15-year-olds? Because that’s really up there with the number-one reason it will. The A.V. Club’s Joshua Alston hilariously titled his review“Netflix’s Fuller House is like a porn parody without the porn” — and that is a spot-on analysis.

I think the main reason Fuller House fails, though, is that it doesn’t know who its target audience is. Yes, the series came into being because Netflix wanted to answer what it thought was the clarion call of millennials eager to see the Tanners reunited on the small screen. I think what many content creators are slowly realizing when it comes to these reboots, though, is that the supposed thirst and nostalgic noise in the ether (read: on the internet) is much, much larger than the actual desire to take action when there’s something to do or see.

When Disney announced it was rebooting Boy Meets World, every outlet ever wrote about it; but are we actually watching Girl Meets World? Nope. Who is? Tweens and teens. Disney got smart and revived the show for a younger generation, knowing that fans of Boy Meets World now have their own kids and they can enjoy Girl Meets World together. The formula has proven successful, and it helps that the series is on a network where it has to impart educational teachings in each episode. The show was nominated for an Emmy for Outstanding Children’s Program in 2015.

That won’t be happening with Fuller House (though Netflix is trying to create a new, T.G.I.F.-esque slate with Fuller House and futurefamily friendly offerings).Fans of the original will see some of Full House’s warm-and-fuzzy formula in the reboot, but no one in the family will be gathering around the Netflix viewing portal of choice to watch every episode of Fuller House. Once the pilot, which is a frantic mess that contains a cast reunion (minus Michelle), clunky exposition, and setup for the rest of the series, disbands with the special guest appearances from the older generation (Danny, Jesse, Joey, and Becky), the series is left with a similar setup to last time. Like her father, D.J. is now a widow, and Stephanie and D.J.'s childhood best friend, Kimmy (Andrea Barber), moves in to help raise D.J. and Kimmy’s children.

Yep. The song remains 100% the same, only the jokes are cheap, the characters over-styled within an inch of their lives in the way that all TV characters are these days (and it’s just way too jarring on a show where the original was so happily messy and unfussy), and you can time the segments of each episode — establishing problem, escalation, very special talk, resolution — with an iPhone, which is at the center of so many of the plotlines you’d think Apple was sponsoring the show.

Listen, I wasn’t expecting Fuller House to be Veep. I just wanted it to be watchable — especially considering that it's coming to us from Netflix, purveyor of such fine programs as Orange Is the New Black, Jessica Jones, and Bojack Horseman. I feel like "just wanted it to be watchable" is a pretty low bar for a devoted fan of the original (I taped the finale on a friggin’ VCR because I had dance class when it aired; that’s the level of commitment we’re talking here) to have. Instead, it’s a disappointing, unfunny reminder that maybe the trend of rebooting the objects of our most nostalgic desire needs to end. One might even say they need to...

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Okay, I’m done.



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Conspiracy Theorists Suggest Katy Perry Is Really JonBenét Ramsey

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I can remember a period in the mid-'90s when my mom forbade me from looking at the magazines in the grocery store checkout. They were plastered with pictures of a little girl around my age, whose bright blue eyes and bouncy blonde curls were so perfectly doll-like that at first glance she didn't seem to be real.

But JonBenét Ramsey's face is the kind that sticks in your mind. She was a radiant, beautiful child — that's one reason people still remember her. Another one: her tragic murder, which has remained unsolved for nearly 20 years.

Conspiracy theorists, not to mention actual detectives, are still stuck on decoding clues that would finally break her case.

Now, a video making the rounds suggests that JonBenét has been alive all along — and living her life undercover as the singer Katy Perry, no less. The theory is not only insane, it's highly offensive to the Ramsey family after everything they've been through.

In 2014, YouTube user Dave Johnson posted a video in which he claims, via voice-over, that Ramsey is living undercover as Katy Perry. "Nobody died, nobody got hurt. That sacrifice was in name only, and that was to get something, and that something was to become a star," he says. "JonBenét became Katy Perry, and that’s a fact.”

The video suggests that Perry's parents are actually Patsy and John Ramsey in disguise as Keith Hudson and Mary Perry. "He shaved his head. She lost some weight," Johnson explains, as though that's enough evidence to prove that four distinct people are, in actuality, two skillful pretenders who have been keeping up a decades-long charade. (Patsy Ramsey, a former beauty queen herself, died in 2006; her ex-husband, John, has since remarried. Katy Perry's parents are both alive and present in their daughter's life.)

The problem here isn't Johnson's proof or lack thereof: The video is inarguably invalid, and no one is entertaining the idea that there's any truth to it. What's fucked up is that — even though we all know there isn't a kernel of truth in the theory— it's still making the rounds on the internet, where people are suddenly comparing a dead child's features with those of a 31-year-old pop singer.







JonBenét Ramsey is a victim who never got justice, never mind the opportunity to grow up and speak for herself. Saying that the theory itself is nuts while simultaneously calling out similarities with tongue in cheek makes light of a very real tragedy. There is no good reason for plastering the internet with photo mashups of that little girl and a preeminent pop princess. It's as cheap a move now as it was when her face was all over the checkout aisle — and JonBenét's memory deserves so much better.





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Does This Pic Reveal The Moment T.Swift & Calvin Harris Met?

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Taylor Swift and Calvin Harris are a firmly established item these days, engaging in all sorts of couple-y behaviors. They built a holiday snowman. He refers to her as his "beautiful girlfriend" on Instagram. She calls him by his actual name, not his stage name. All signs point to things going swimmingly between those two.

But once upon a time, they were just two musicians who had yet to hug at the Billboard Music Awards, being introduced in an elevator.

Instagram user @Max.Will.Makes.Music shared a pic today that he alleges to have snapped of Swift and Harris the moment they met. "#tbt Last February's #ellestyleawards when I snapped @elliegoulding introducing @taylorswift to @calvinharris for the first time (with a cameo by @samsmithworld )," he wrote. "Happy anniversary, you two kids!"

No word from Swift or Harris as to whether or not this pic is an accurate portrait of their first meeting. But if it is, we're hoping that their song is "Love in an Elevator," by Aerosmith. It would only be right.







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Every now and then, we see a parade of shoes sent down the runway that completely captures our attention — like, in a way where we end up completely forgetting what the clothes actually looked like and spending the rest of the day in a tizzy, dreaming about going all Cinderella with the kicks of our dreams. Well, Wednesday at the No. 21 show in Milan was one of those moments.

Alessandro Dell’Acqua presented a fall/winter 2016 collection that was all about the attraction of opposites: silky slip dresses with oversized checked flannels; a gray sweater layered underneath a summery frock; an oversized chunky knit and an ultra-luxe fur coat. "I really liked this idea of contrasting this extreme femininity and lightness of the '30s with something more brutal and masculine," the designer told WWD of the collection. "The attitude is a bit grunge, a little brave, let's say, with this concept of putting together items that don't really match."

In other words, the clothes were good — very good. But the accessories? Well, we're betting they're about to go viral. The brand's Ronny mule, with its large, offset bows, bold colors (emerald green, yellow, taupe), and, on some versions, attached gems and embellishments, has become highly recognizable (not to mention heavily Instagrammed) since its debut in the spring/summer 2015 collection. The shoes have been spotted on everyone, from Leandra Medine to Lisa Folawiyo, and are as easily recognizable as No. 21.

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This season, Dell'Acqua gave the Ronny a facelift — here, satin was replaced with glitter, the bow was replaced with a chunkier, set-to-the-side belt, the thin heel was made thicker, and studs became the decoration of choice. Color was still a major facet of the style, with a vibrant purple and a shimmery gold particularly catching our attention. Basically, we saw version 2.0 of the shoes we know and love, but more in tune with the collection's toughened-up aesthetic (and, given the nature of the block heel, likely easier to walk in, which is always a bonus).

N°21 Fall/Winter 16 #n21fw16 #n21 #no21 #numeroventuno #mfw #n21shoes #shoes

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Last spring, Dell'Acqua toldFootwear Newsof his shoes, "I often think about the shoes before I start designing anything else.…Shoes are becoming a highlight of the collection more and more. To work, they have to be spectacular." And these work very well, indeed.



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